CL,

Originally Posted By: Concerned_Listener
I can do subtle at my own pace.
Good for you, I hope you can make it work.

Originally Posted By: Concerned_Listener
The trick is to not be intimidated by the sleeping elsewhere, or to allow it to discount the postives that are happening.
I am just concerned that whilst your W is "sleeping elsewhere" you are not prepared to move forward in the area of intermacy.

But.... you are in the best place to make decisions,we can only comment from your posts. So take care as you move forward slowly, we are here to support you.

Lanzo