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[The Wifey]

(((Neil)))

I honestly can't believe the change myself. It really is easier to commit to DB when you see the very first positive. I also find it easier to rethink when I am getting anxious. The whole, will this get me closer to goal? thing seemed too difficult when I was upset.

I'm still hurting, but now I can see how controlling how I react and just showing love when I am around him makes a difference.

I actually think like I am romancing my husband and he is enjoying the romancing. If I can continue to give him his space at the same time I think things will continue to improve.

Sorry you are jealous, Neil.

Have you done anything romantic for your w lately? Bought her flowers or perfume? I don't know, just anything? What did you used to do when you were dating? Think back.

I'd actually like to ask everybody what you used to do when you were dating? The note thing I do dates back to when I would visit him in college. I would leave notes in every pocket he had before I left and he would find them after I left. (He went to college in another state.)

Now he finds them in his motorcycle jackets, his vest, etc. Just little one-sentence notes.