H pays and enough but the account started £600 overdrawn so we never quite catch up. We need to inject that money into it again and then we would never have to worry. I can;t afford to do that on my own and when I asked him last time he said he would, never did and then resented me when I enquired as it came across as nagging.
The next month I asked him to check the account as I was away from the computer and he arranged for the overdraft to be extended. Now his magazine subscriptions etc have come out and we are even over that now. If I point that out it will come across as blame.
That is why I was hoping we could sit down and look at the account together and come up with a solution but it seems I have the lurgy at the moment!
I have to say I am really stressed about it as I have had to cancel our council tax payment today as h's money still isn't in there. I will have to send a cheque when I get paid in a few days time but each time something like that happens it makes me feel sick with worry. I don't know what to do next. If I force him to speak to me he'll resent me even more.
