So, my live in WAW is now just a WAW. Is that a demotion or a promotion? Not sure and don't care. But I do know that any respect I had for her will be hard for her to gain back.
She was so distant for 4d birthday celebration tonight. Didn't buy her any gifts, not even a card. Luckily I was prepared for this and made no mention to W of this shortcoming on her part. But okay. Maybe she's planning something this weekend at her new place for her. I can buy that...just tell me. Don't take it out on my d.
But that isn't even the worst of it. During dinner 2s was crying over something silly. Her way of calming him down was asking him if we was upset that it was 4d birthday and he said yes. Her response floored me. She said do you want me to take it away from her...WTF? At that point 4d broke down in tears and W had major damage to undo. Unbelievable.
Then, during gift opening my W answered some txts, laid down on the couch and fell asleep...while d was still opening gifts!
Only thing I can say is unbelievable.
After all of that, she went to the drugstore to pick up some epi pens for 2s for her to have at her place and forgot to get the milk.
In anycase, she did some more packing, we talked about custody so her l can get the settlement drawn up and over to my l, talked about the money she needs and so forth. She finished getting her stuff together and left for the evening. She isn't coming home tonight and will be moving out tomorrow.
And for some strange reason I don't care.
Of course now, my DBing will be changing to account for the new living arrangement but probably not by much.
The sun is setting and all I can think about is how much I have enjoyed watching sunsets with a magarita in hand. Sunsets are beautiful, romantic, calming and after a period of rest returns as a new day that is bright and rising.
Chris
you're doing good Chris, keep going. Take care of the business at hand. Your W is screwed up now. Documnet the stuff about the kids and her interactions.
You and the kids will be ok Chris..you're doing good.
