Well, I delivered my letter in persoon last night.....to total silence. We sat there and held hands a while. He fought back tears. I told him I wasn't there to force him into a conversation, that I just needed to be there when he read the letter. After about 30 minutes I left. I told him that if and when he wanted to talk, I would be here. Now, my letter was different---a letter to let him know I know about OW........something I had to do for me..........but, he read it at least 3 times. I know he's thinking.........I am still expecting the worst, but I did what I needed to do for me.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12