Well, letter delivered. I received total silence, and a few tears. I sat there with him and we held hands for a long time. I told him that I wasn't going to force him into a conversation, I just needed to be there when he read the letter. After about 30 minutes of silence I told him that if and when he was ready to talk, I would be here. I held it together, no tears on my end. A little shaking, but no tears. I don't know, I think it was the right thing to do for me. Given my H's TOTAL avoidance on everything, being there was a good idea so I could get his reaction and he couldn't pretend he never received the letter.
I expected the worst, didn't get anything like I thought I would. Time will only tell what happens from here..........
No, we're not religous, but I have found myself praying lately................
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
