I'm puzzled because I'm told by people to move back in, but at the same time you say "if you want her back, let her go" how can I do both at the same time ? as for her feeling the consequences, she sees this guy every day, goes out for drinks with old friends and has a grand old time. how will she feel anything negative ?
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF