Sugar, When i was livin there, and for the first 3 weeks since moving out, I begged, cried and pleaded for her to take me back or try to work things out. I got "too little too late." I am almost positive my wife wanted one of us (me) to move out to make it more convenient to have OM over there when she wanted. Granted I pushed her away so much with my pleading, that she wasn't nice to me until I stopped. Once I got on with life living at my parents, she was nice to me, was asking how my day was, calling me if she had a question about fixing something at the house or her car. She is being very nice to me now too, despite the fact that she has OM sleep over whenever she wants. I feel she is being nice to try to get me to grant her divorce. When she brings up our R, or the big D, and I say "i want what's best for our family including our son, and divorce/separation is not it" she gets angry and says nasty things and tells me to quit holding on, it's over, it's too late.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
