For the Guy with Kids and a WW 8

[Sugar and Spice]

((((H4H)))) watching H pack was one of the hardest things that I have ever had to witness. It took a while for it to really be ok, but it gets better. I promise it does.

You won't have to wonder what its going to be like when you get home. Is she gonna be nice, is she not. etc...

Just like I posted to Buster, dude...this is her journey and shes going to have to make it her way. If you could fix this, it would already be fixed, but since its not about you, you can't. The best you can do now is pray for her and stand back and let her fall or fly. Either way, she will have to learn the lessons that are hers to learn. Use this time to work on you and have some positives in YOUR life.

You are way too cool a guy to let this hold you down. If you don't believe me, then why is your dance card so full?

Take care of you, keep being a great dad and find the guy you want to be. Be the guy she was/is a fool to let go.

Truth be told, I'm almost glad that H didn't come back when he said he would (right before the Troll announced the "good news"). It only would have meant that he would have had to put us through leaving again. He wasn't/isn't ready to not be sick, so I just figure God is looking out for us and there is a bigger plan...I just don't have the specs yet.

In the immortal word of Axl Rose....

Said woman take it slow, and things will be just fine.
All we need is just use a little patience....

Hang in there. ((((S&M hug)))) GOTCHA!!!!