Bad reaction, but excellent recovery. It is very hard to not want the remorse but it will get easier. Women, in general just seem to have a very, very hard time with "I'm sorry". I have seen it time and time again. In reality though, no one wants to keep being forced to say it over and over again. Keep that one on mind too. You deserve to hear it often but she did it already, right? When I get in a "mood" about something I still want to bring it up. Not a good idea!
Don't try to prove anything, judge her actions, or teach her a lesson. Just work to help your M "evolve" into it's new and better form. Notice that I didn't say to make it anything, let it evolve. In a short time she will learn to appreciate your caring, understanding and patience. Give her the time and opportunity to step back and see it. Remember that everything is a choice. What are you going to choose to do?
