((((Buster))) The only thing/person you can control is you. If you want it to work then do what you have to do to make it work and the fastest way is for W and OM to get a harsh dose of reality.
I would move back in in a heartbeat. I would also waste no time in taking all of the doors inside the interior of the house off of the hinges...hard to have private time with no door (leave bathroom door on, remove knob.)
Maybe I'm just dense, but why can't you fight W for DS? Is she the best parent for him to be with? I'm just asking.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option