nlt, I suppose it is just a piece of paper...especially when you want to stand for your marriage. Yours did happen very qiuckly...I am not sure what I would have done.

I hope he does come to his senses...you have no contact, right?

I have always had contact...there has never been a 'dark' period in my sitch...only a dim period. There is so much darkness in his life and it does not seem to work well in our sitch.

Still praying as well!!!

Hugs,
V



Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller