I did complain about H spending so much money also & yes he spent it on himself more. Of course for Xmas 2006, he did buy me an SUV & a leather jacket. The SUV was a 2007 Denali. Then he met OW in June.
My H's sign is Aquarius. What sign is your H?
I know my H spent 200.00 on OW b'day last year, not sure how much for Xmas. He spent over 300.00 for mine last year. He may have gotten her something else that I didn't know about. I just knew he took that 200.00 out of our joint acct.
It sure is hard, isn't it???
I'm so glad you had a wonderful day! It must be so nice to go swimming. It is so hot & humid here, some rain but not much.