Sorry I ended that post so abrutly..... My H told me once that I was so wise for waiting him out and being patient.... he thanked me so many times. I hated that he hurt over her but she represented alot of good times and feelings to him and I had to let him grieve in his own way. The trust issue is hard. Shiny is so wise.....the best thing that has came from all of this is my new friendship with my H. I still hurt and get mad and want to yell at him....but there is no point to that. None at all. Read After the Affair as Shiny or LL suggested. Also The 5 Love Languages and His Needs Her Needs. You giving her space and understanding her feelings as she gets over OG will come back to you in many positive ways. I did read that once women stray if they work on their marriages that they normally won't stray again!!!! Men, well thats another story. Take Care & Good Luck!!! Kim aka KIP my thread is in Hopefulness
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