Hello, Lwb,

I just wanted to check in on you. So the dog ate your H's homework, huh? I don't get these WAS. He's the one who's all fired up and determined to get a D, but you're doing the heavy lifting for him?

I get the same thing from my W. She's been eligible since July 7 to file, keeps threatening to do so at least once a week now, and yet still hasn't pulled the trigger? I've gone as far as retaining personal counsel, and she can't manage even that as yet? I ask myself, who wants this divorce?

Don't get me wrong, I know it's coming, no doubt about that, but we're coming up on a month now. I would normally be the one to so procrastinate, and she'd never let me hear the end of it if I were the one dragging their feet.

All I can figure is that she must secretly enjoy prolonging the drama.



Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.