And as one of the cited "examples" I wanted to say - we didn't have the "OK goodbye I'm sick of waiting" talk, per se, but we got to the point I was looking at condos and figuring out financials for our D. My heart wasn't ready but my mind and body were ready to move on and hope my heart caught up. I never SAID it but I think my actions probably showed it, at least to some degree.
When I got Bomb #2 one of H's complaints was that during our sep, he never truly felt he could lose me. After that bomb and my response, I think he wasn't quite so sure.
Totally agree with Dom, you gotta mean it if you're going to say it.. it's a tough one and you have to make the choice that's best for you.
((Trixi))
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
