For the Guy with Kids and a WW 8

[hopeful4her]

Well, I ended up going to the grocery store and then home. Roomie was home cooking already. They are making arrangements to give the dogs away. Actually roomie is. She said that she took one to work today for a coworker that was off to pick and see it. She thought it was smaller. She brought it back. D11 is whining about keeping two of them. Roomie tells her it would be up to me, because they would have to keep them here.

Thanks alot.

She is talking to me a little bit more. I keep trying to avoid her, but not ignoring her.

I found out from S14 that she is going to take the day off tomorrow. He is going to help her with what he can. She brought a bunch more boxes home. Not big ones. Medium.

She just took S14 to the movies. D6 went with her.

I hate this. I think I will try to get off early tomorrow and get the girls to grandmas house. That way I don't have to worry about them. I'll get them back for church. After I drop them off, I'll go out with some friends.

Did I mention that I hate this?

I don't feel depressed. Just kind of numb. I pray to God that somehow she feels the same sadness.

But I know better than that.

She's done a few things that she really didn't have to. She gave me a plate to serve myself dinner. She's talking a LITTLE bit more. Before she left to take S14 to the movies, she asked me if I wanted to watch a movie that she was going to return tonight. I said no. D's ate dinner in the living room again. I was eating with S14 in the kitchen on the island. While she served herself, she yells out if any one wants some bread. No answer. She asks S14 and he says yes. She turns to me and asks me, too. I say no, thank you.

I hate noticing all this little crap.

She's just trying to make herself feel better. Probably telling herself that she left on nice terms. And even tried to keep up the house.

Just before I left work, I got a call from a lady that was referred to me from another financial institution. She needs a seperate account. She is getting divorced. She says that her H took their two and a half year old from under her nose through the courts. She is expecting some money to come in to pay for L. Meeting her first thing in the morning. Same age as I.

I forsee us having an interesting conversation tomorrow morning.

I just helped another woman on Tuesday. She got some money from in inheritance. She has been separated for 3 weeks. She left him. Abusive. Two kids. Nine and five.

What is going on? When roomie and I were on better terms, she had told me that she is seeing a lot more divorced couples, too.