Hey, it's great to talk to someone close by. I was beginning to think that I was the only one on these boards east of the Mississippi. Seems most the people I talk to and whose threads I follow are east-coasters. If you went to Hollywood Homicide on Tuesday in Valencia, then yes, I probably saw you there. We were 2 of, what, 20 people total in that theater?
I'd like to read up on your story. Do you have links to your threads?
I hope my W doesn't grieve too long. She mostly tries not to show it, so it's a little hard to tell how she's feeling inside. Last night I thought she seemed a little distant again, even though outwardly everything seemed OK. We had dinner together, took a dip in the Jacuzzi, and I gave her a backrub before hitting the hay. Everything was fine, and I might be reading too much into it, but the conversation was a little stilted somehow. Anyway, the definition of what constitutes a "normal" evening continues to improve, so I'm not complaining.
Quote: I guess what I'm trying to say is that right now this really sucks, but once your W has a little time to really reflect on what she's done, the ramifications of her actions, and how incredibly loving and supportive you've been for her, she will start to see the OM and her involvement with him as her deepest humiliation.
A little selfish, perhaps, but this is what I want, exactly.
