In search of ButterflyMom and Favoriteweirdo......

[peacetoday]

Hi
The letter seems well written and thought out
At one point, i also wrote a letter to my H but never gave it
It helped me just to get it all on paper
I dont know how open your H is or where you and He are at in this process
If he eis open to you and the Reconcilliation idea then maybe it will work
I think my H always appreciated my attempts at meking amends for my part in out M
I verbally made amends on a few different issues and I believe it helped pave the way for a friendship and helped me clear the air
as for my situation, Nothing has helped bring H around
so have low expectations --
and if he tried to avoid any conversation about the letter, that is what my H would have done
Good luck
peace