OW is PG

[Livin4ME]

((((Sugar)))) it's good to hear from someone else with a similar sitch. H has been adament about not wanting any more children. 2 was all he wanted. I talked him out of getting a vascetomy while I was pg with our 2nd child because I felt we were still too young, told him to give us 5 years and then reevaluate. I so wish I hadn't done that!
He would like for her to terminate like she had originally planned. But he knows he can't push that on her. He is actually wanting to stand up and pay child support and be involved if possible. We will be moving out of state early next year. She is saying he will not be allowed to have anything to do with it. And she will supposedly not accept any money. (ha! she has no clue!)
He also doesn't want anyone to know about it. Altho after talking last night, he wants to speak to his father this weekend. I mentioned signing over parental rights with her not being allowed to contact the family. He refuses to sign over parental rights. He feels that this is his child and his responsibility.