Thanks for the good info. I will follow your suggestions and your lead.
It is getting easier to GAL.
Wednesday will be my birthday and as occasions go, I have always made birthdays special.
I wonder if H will do anything? Last year at this time , because he had confirmed my suspisions on July 28, he threw me a B party. He was racked with guilt and threw me a party.
I cried alot. It was weird. His whole family showed and they all knew what had transpired. It was supportive and ......weird.
They still visit here and we keep in touch.
I will not expect anything. On August 6 I will be 46. Last year I felt more like 106. This year I feel like ummmm 36 !
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"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"