(((Julz))) Sorry to see you here and believe me I feel your pain. My H's OW is also pregnant (6months) with what she claims is H's baby. I won't hi-jack your thread with a retelling of my drama, but my H is not home, nor am I sure he is ever going to come home.
This definately complicates things and much like you, the timing seems very convenient. First and foremost, what is your H saying about this situation? Has he had any "real" confirmation that she is pregnant? If so, what does he want to do about it?
FWIW, if he is truly committed to getting your M back on track, then this is surely something that will make it difficult, but I don't think its not something that two committed people can't work through.
No matter what, there are caring, supportive people on these boards that can be there for you. So far though, I'm the only one I have seen that is going through this particular flavor of hell.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
