I do feel good and have most definitely turned a really big corner over the past few weeks. While I'm still ticked off at my husband's actions, I'm OK with what's going on. If I had my druthers, we would have worked us out but he didn't want that and I don't want the man he is, so it makes it easier to watch him walk away. He still broke our vows, our family and our marriage and for that I doubt I'll ever really forgive him. Yet I realize that it's time for me to move on. Moving out of our house was the best thing I ever did.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.