mark something i haven't mentioned in awhile(if at all). what if my wife just plain doesn't want to be with me ? i didn't treat her as well as I should have or give her all the attention she needed/deserved . I'd like to hear your thoughts. I know she is a classic WAS that cheated. originally before counseling, she directed me to this website, and had already printed out Michelle's article about Walk Away Wife Syndrome from Psych Today. if she handed me this article and basically told me that's what her case was, and that I ignored the warning signs, was she subconsciously trying to get me to save her ? and she's not anymore ? OM has been in the picture since before I was handed the article.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
it's almost lawyer time. Weird, wife just texted me out of the blue asking for help with her cell phone, and then she says 'you know I really put my heart and soul out to you and you crushed it' I was devastated to read that but did not let it get to me nor did I respond. She said everything happens for a reason. How do I take all this
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
Went to lawyer didn't get too far. Can't get OM barred from my house. Only thing I can do is move back in, but she'll have him there anyway. Could have someone there while I go to work, but she'll just have him there.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
There's also no getting her parents or OM to talk to the pastor. Parents are way too busy to take time out to pull their daughter out of this. OM is an idiot and said he isn't going anywhere. On the plus side lawyer told me to stop paying her money and giving her the time of day. Since her friend got kicked out of her apartment and are living in our house, W owes me half of what they pay for rent, if they do
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
My guess is he can't Tow something just because he feels like it. This would be putting you friend into legal risk.
He could just keep an eye on the house. I still reccomend having a friend stay there when you move in.
AS far as OM and his promises. I wouldn't believe him.
1. He's been lying to you for weeks indirectly. 2. He has the nerve to crawl into your bed with your wife. 3. You call the police twice on him and he STILL pursues her. 4. You tell him outright he's harming your family and the best he can offer you is "I'll think about it"
Dude, I just don't have a strong opinion of him, so I wouldn't trust anything he has to say at the moment. He can tell you he's the bad guy, but remember : this is the guy that talked your wife into violating her marriage vows and betraying your trust, he's a charmer.
I would suggest you let some of YOUR friends live there and make your wife and her friends' lives miserable.
Trust me if you want someone to leave your home you can invite the right people in to make that happen.
If OM and her show up all your friends have to do is make a complete nuisance of themselves. Your friends would be charged with doing whatever YOU would do if you were there. If the OM an d your wife head to abedroom they just follow them, go into the room and keep pestering them. Play loud offensive music, make a lot of unpleasant behaviour etc...just make pigs of themselves.
I am wondering if just selling the house would be best. If your wife wants you to come back it can always be in a new home you buy with just your name on it.
Find out from the lawyer about selling your home maybe. OR hire some people to take the whole house apart lol Demolish it and plan to have it rebuilt! lol
I know, you may not have the money to do that, but I just got th eidea becasue someone down my street here just got his house demolished she he can build a whole new one on the lot. lol
You could demolish it, and tell your wife yo uplan to have a new one built "soon" lol
I am jus tthinking that there must be something legal you can do so she leaves your home and won't want to be there. YOU moving in would do it then do that.
I am thinking more of your son and the environment she has him in right now. I am thinking it would be better for you to have your home back and you son staying there with you than her staying there with your son and the OM right?
I agree completely. Lawyer says to sell the house. She can't afford it even with me paying support and she can't afford to buy me out. Lawyer said there is no danger to my son unless people are there trashing the place getting drunk as hell
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
