dcr,

While I would really prefer to go to a MC with my W (to this point she has refused to do that), I might go by myself. How do you go about finding an SBT-trained counselor? Do you just ask "are you SBT-trained?", or does Michele keep a list somewhere, which would make it easier?

The suggestion of setting some concrete goals is excellent, thanks. I'll try to start making a list.

Brian