SW, I think Lola makes a good point. I think that your H has no right to be snooping through your stuff and he should learn to respect you and your boundaries before you give him keys again. My XH still has keys to our apartment but our sitchs are different. If he was doing the things that your H is doing I'd find a way to get him out. You're living in fear and that is no way to live.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
