We'll, we all have to recover and work together if it's going to work out. Time is good I guess. The way you were prior to the bomb didnt work, so it should feel different. If you know youre tough to get along with, then it sounds easy to figure out what that cause is (i'm sure it isnt). Dont you think if you were easier to deal with, she would change too?
I have tried different ways to show I care. Mainly, giving in on the kids. For her to know that I am giving up what's most valued to me, time with my kids. She has to realize this when I let her have them a few more days this week. I did it for her. Not sure of too many other ideas right now because she's not here. After our dinner last night, the kids wanted to come home and spend time with me. I dont know if I DB'd my kids or what. Quit the pulling and here they come too. Then today when W came to pick them up, they were not too eager to leave. My son stayed for lunch and left later. She did come in and talk to me for a few minutes. First time this has happened. Actually came into the house. We did have some good eye contact. I felt like a superhero trying use my super powers by looking as deep as possible into her eyes, trying to cast a spell so she'd wake up from this nightmare. She told me about her 6am meeting that nobody showed to. I wanted to say something smart to the effect isnt it great to have to work all the time now, but I bit my tongue.
