I think you are doing the right thing by letting your WAH reconnect with the kids. It is important to him, and to them. But I also agree that the responsibility should not be placed squarely on you. He wants the kids, he has to stick to a schedule. Kids do much better with structure.
There is someting really interesting about forgiving. I personally struggle with this, because I always thought if I forgave, that means it was okay.
It doesnt't. Just because you forgive the action does not mean you condone it.
At any rate, I am sorry you had to meet us under these circumstances, but we are a wild sort, have our ups and downs, and really try to laugh through this, because, after all, laughter is the best medicine.
So is breathing...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
