Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I won't pound you for snooping, because truth be told, I'd have done it to (if only I had his email password!). Now, I keep things sitting in my inbox FOREVER! I mean a long time! Here's what you know...she read it and she didn't delete it. You don't know anymore than that so quit trying to guess. Maybe she's formulating a response of some sort...who knows. I do think it's good that she hasn't responded yet. You really want to have a well thought out response rather than a knee-jerk one.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
I won't pound you for snooping, because truth be told, I'd have done it to (if only I had his email password!). Now, I keep things sitting in my inbox FOREVER! I mean a long time! Here's what you know...she read it and she didn't delete it. You don't know anymore than that so quit trying to guess. Maybe she's formulating a response of some sort...who knows. I do think it's good that she hasn't responded yet. You really want to have a well thought out response rather than a knee-jerk one.
Yep, she saves them if she wants to keep stuff, but she doesn't go and do that until she has a tonne of emails.. I know she has plans on sending my Mom and Dad and my brother and his wife an email of some sort..
I am not going to worry about it, rather i will think about my upcoming 4 day weekend.. yeehaw
I can't say a word. I look at H's cell phone bill every once in a while to see who he is calling. Of course, I have no idea who the numbers are
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
you think so? what if I said I snooped (oops).. and I know she read it and it's sitting in her inbox & not in saved (yet)..
I know slap me I am bad.. i promised myself i wouldn't do it anymore and still did it.
I am still not ever saying a word..
Been there done that. Then was an EXTRA large idiot and felt so guilty after snooping for weeks that I admitted it to H. Told him to change his password. HE did, now I WISH I could snoop again. LOL
Hang in there, let her sit with it for a bit. You don't read something like that then just ignore it. She's thinking. You don't know what, but she is thinking.
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
well my background was in IT before i moved to engineering..
she grinned at me at the gym tonight, we chatted about my work briefly.. and now she's gone to bed.. I am off for 4 days so am going to watch a movie..
Well, I delivered my letter in persoon last night.....to total silence. We sat there and held hands a while. He fought back tears. I told him I wasn't there to force him into a conversation, that I just needed to be there when he read the letter. After about 30 minutes I left. I told him that if and when he wanted to talk, I would be here. Now, my letter was different---a letter to let him know I know about OW........something I had to do for me..........but, he read it at least 3 times. I know he's thinking.........I am still expecting the worst, but I did what I needed to do for me.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
Well, I delivered my letter in persoon last night.....to total silence. We sat there and held hands a while. He fought back tears. I told him I wasn't there to force him into a conversation, that I just needed to be there when he read the letter. After about 30 minutes I left. I told him that if and when he wanted to talk, I would be here. Now, my letter was different---a letter to let him know I know about OW........something I had to do for me..........but, he read it at least 3 times. I know he's thinking.........I am still expecting the worst, but I did what I needed to do for me.
I don't think I could have done it in person like that, good for you having that courage ..
