Hi guy: I've been watching your posts in the other forum. You guys have so much positive going on. MC would be so helpful on this recommittment issue and helping your W see the incompatibility of having a M with a fallback position built in.
I agree that you should shop around for a good one. My H and I have found a great one that incorporates DB work, Gottman work, Love Languages, etc. Even then, we both had to agree that we felt comfortable with her after a few sessions.
