I spent the afternoon outback re-re-reading divorcebusting. Up to step 3. This is very helpful. Even if he does not return I will get my self-control back.

He called to say he was taking the kids to the movies, Could I have them ready at 7:45. I said absolutely. He had asked some common question like what's up when I answered and I very enthusiastically said that the kids were looking forward to a nice night with him. I asked him how his b-day apple cake was, because our oven always burns things and I watched to be sure it wasn't burnt. He said it was good and not too underdone. I said I was glad to hear it. He is probably scratching his head what alien came down and replaced me. GOOD! Leave 'em guessing.

I'm working on it guys, I just needed a kick in the pants.....''

thank you thank you thank you thank you!!!! I feel somewhat human again....


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08