welcome to piecing! sorry that w still wants to contact og...but at least she was honest about it.. my h too kept in contact with ow for a while (honestly who knows what the deal is currently) and at first didn't see what the big deal was...oi vey...sometimes they just don't get it.
focus on what's going well and what is working for you.
glad your planning to take a trip with w and also glad that she at least has some time line as to when she'll stop talking to og...