Not sure why I've waited so long to come here

[Snow White]

Yes sometimes, or he comes into the house on goes through my computer, phone ect. I have been trying to stress the lack of respect he is showing me with these actions and his verbal assaults. I can say that the past 2 or 3 days have been an improvement. But I also decided to take a stand. I talked to him a couple of times and asked him to step back and listen. And I told him I have allowed him to become this person by not standing up for myself and I know this is not the person he would like to be. I took my computer with me when I left the house the last 2 days. Not because I have anything to hide but because of the disrespectful things he is doing.