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Only got a quick minute ..... your H feels "controlled", my H's word was "regimented" and I too was only trying to be helpful \:\(

My advice would be to drop ALL control. Let him sort out EVERYTHING. Then he doesn't have to fight you on the control front at all.

It will feel weird and scarey ... but it worked for me.

PS I lived in Poland for a while 10 years ago ... dwa piwo duze prosze! \:\)

Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05
Seperated Sept/Oct 05
Oct 06 - H recomitted
July 11 - I am now a WAW.