losing sunshine but gaining happiness either way

[LosingSunshine]

Thanks FG.

"Well the first thing is you can't close the joint account.. both of you will have to go to the bank and have it closed together.. Do not do this unless specifically directed by your L.

Yep. And the worst thing she can do is to withdraw funds without my consent...dissipation of assets and extraordinary expenses that are in violation of the temp restraining order. Going to come back and bite her.

"As far as the mortgage.. and her new lease.. its easy to make plans if you can just walk away from things. She is responsible for whatever bills are due now.. just like you.. whatever debt.. you have right now.. she shares in.. sucks she had to learn about it now. If she thinks it is manipulative.. let her.

With this I said, "if you don't believe me, call your L." I am sick of her viewing me as manipulative.

"Don't let this phase you. It does bring about a bit of a slap in the face though doesn't it. It just shows how much thought is really happening in her mind right now.

She is so focused on getting out it is silly...it just makes me sad. She did catch me off guard though. I think reality is slowly starting to creep in on her.

Well, I need to leave and go get balloons for 4d birthday and some stuff to grill out. Another fun talk hopefully after the celebration. Can't wait

Chris