need help

[peacetoday]

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I agree with the others
My R with my kids is very important to me
I am not here as long as you but C has helped me
I am just getting D now
My stbx and I get along well
I dont know what the future holds but for my kids sake and mine, i want to keep it amlicable..we will not be best friends and in time i believe what connection we have now will vanish as we each begin our journey alone
I m sorry for your pain and as J said --it may take a while to get thw R with yourt kids better
Couseling does help as it gives us that thinking partner who is for us
take care of yourself
peace