Oldtimers: Return or not..what finally happened?

[peacetoday]

S
My H filed a few weeks ago--I told him too
Maybe BD Is right, they string us along..they dont want to hurt us
maybe my H knew he was really done for a while,, this was after many months of emotional connecting and talking..supporting him in every way I could
I was surprized he Filed after how hard I tried to be there for him and how we connected emotionally- like never before in pour M..
Iniially I was very sad.Now I feel it is the right thing and the only way out of here for me
I saw my L
I am pleased with what L said

I still do care for my H
he visits all the time
and we are connecting again but this time I see the connection as a way to keep the peace for the kids sake
I will not wait for him any longer
I am finishing up my grief so I can move on
I can clearly see my H is not willing or wanting to work on our M
I gave it 18 months

You might wait and pray for clarity
you may need more time
maybe you will see a sign
he didnt seem to want you to file..but how do we know what that means in MLCer language
good luck
I hope you find some peace today
Peace