Originally Posted By: KerryK
So, after this good talk, do either of you have any hope for your marriage? Did you ask him if he wants to work on staying married?

No, because I don't know if I want to save it anymore. I want to be cherished. I want to be an equal partner. I don't think he can give me what I need on an emotional level. I can't continue to compromise my needs. I am too good for that and I have too much love to give. A man who deserves me will be very happy someday.

At this point, I think it's best to part ways. We don't have kids. My love for him has changed. I hate to admit it, but it's true. Maybe after some time away from each other, but not now.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence