So, after this good talk, do either of you have any hope for your marriage? Did you ask him if he wants to work on staying married?
No, because I don't know if I want to save it anymore. I want to be cherished. I want to be an equal partner. I don't think he can give me what I need on an emotional level. I can't continue to compromise my needs. I am too good for that and I have too much love to give. A man who deserves me will be very happy someday.
At this point, I think it's best to part ways. We don't have kids. My love for him has changed. I hate to admit it, but it's true. Maybe after some time away from each other, but not now.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence