I feel my WAH is in MLC...but, maybe we're at a stage that doesn't belong here.
Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/05 H moved out 4/06 4/06-9/07 lots of family time together. 9/1/07 I asked H to either pursue a divorce or find a way to bring the family back together...the limbo land was not working. 9/1/07- today...no contact from him to the kids at all, and he has been for soccer games and special days...only...about 60 different days, for a few hours...
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home