Any suggestions which forum I should be in?

I feel my WAH is in MLC...but, maybe we're at a stage that doesn't belong here.

Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/05
H moved out 4/06
4/06-9/07 lots of family time together.
9/1/07 I asked H to either pursue a divorce or find a way to bring the family back together...the limbo land was not working.
9/1/07- today...no contact from him to the kids at all, and he has been for soccer games and special days...only...about 60 different days, for a few hours...


Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home