It is hard to imagine a more difficult situation.

A loving mother whose children do not repsect her or her wishes.

Itsy, I can only imagine your pain. And the only advice I can offer, is what I think I would do. This problem occurred over years, as such there is no quick fix.

Respect like trust is slowly built, and I would start working slowly on trying to rebuild it with your children.

Stay or go to your grandchild's birthday?

I know, no power on Earth could stop me.
We sacrifice for our children, we always have we always will.
Ours is a generational story, you may never have the rapport you want with your children, but you might with your grandchildren.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet