Cinco - good point! At the time of my very ignorant assumptions, I assumed that all men must enjoy going down on a woman, because every man (very few) I had been with enjoyed it and had begged for more, and also because I myself enjoyed it, and therefore, everyone must enjoy it, right?
But you are right...upon further investigation and talking to friends etc, I found out that -- *newsflash* -- some men actually don't enjoy the act but will do it for her...and other men simply won't do it at all and don't enjoy it on any level.
Amazing! We are all different! But how delightful that we are not just all clones of each other...we each have something different to give, receive, learn, share, and offer...