I did actually hug her twice this morning. She was crying a lot and just looked so desperate - so I grabbed her and hugged her and rubbed her back. I couldn't help it.
mule, I had read Smartcookie on one thread somewhere say that whenever she cries, hold her tight. whether is in a situation like you were having or at a movie or whenever. just hold her, show her your strength.
Now i'm sorry I dont know your entire sitch, i've been thread-surfing today, so some of the others who know you better may correct me.
best of luck to you. this place is so full of wonderful people
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".