Originally Posted By: happyincognito
I wanted to say good bye permanently because this is no longer a place I should be. the heartache on these boards is so hard to swallow and i just dont have to in me to be patient and handholding when I see people spinning out of control and self destructing. I do care but i care way too much to be able to effectively be a help.


You must do what you know is healthy for you.

Ever heard of the allegory of the cave?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allegory_of_the_cave

Might strike a note.

Your unabashed advice comes off hard, but many times even the most misguided advice has some truth buried in it. I'm reminded of a story:

http://www.rbc.org/devotionals/our-daily-bread/2003/01/22/devotion.aspx

Vaya con Dios,

N.