Have you thought about asking her?

I'm one year out also. I'm thinking the thing I want the most from a relationship is total honesty - good or bad.

If asking her isn't an option, could you ask her to go to dinner sometime to discuss your feelings, etc.

....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

me=ok /D'd since 7/07
D=ok