No problem Lost...in fact, go and check out that Nice Guy book the guys are talking about. I haven't read it but have read excerpts and I have stalked their message board a little bit (yes I have seen you there, Silly!) I can attest that if this sounds like you, it is imperative to get that worked out and fix it!
Women want a strong man. If you haven't been that up until now, figure out how to do so. You will be better off for it, whether you remain married or not. Hopefully, your wife will benefit from it and you two can work this thing out.
