Advice from my DB coach #3

[NikB]

(((Poet)))

Looks like you're getting lots of good support and advice here - glad to see it!

One thing about telling him "what you're doing" - yes, I agree to call him and keep it light and casual. Along those lines, don't share TOO much about what you're doing. Leave a little mystery, and don't share more about your life than he's willingly sharing about his.

For example.. if he's not telling you where he is, what he's doing, and who with - he doesn't get that much detail from you. Where were you last night? Out with friends.. at the movies.. whatever it is that you did. Don't lie, just be vague and not too detailed.

From your post to me - I also wanted to let you know - there's no loophole on the site by which you can share your email address. However, there are a number of people from here who've joined Facebook, if you care to look for us. I'm not sure how much I'm allowed to share here, but if you look for an unusual user name (i.e. Kalni Sunshine) you should be able to find the group.