Blog #2

[Shelby]

Thanks Dance Queen,
I know it won't be the cure all and that we definitely have other issues to work through. But I do think it will be a help.
It will give us both some self confidence that is lacking in that are.

I also agree about the pressure. I always feel like I have a pressure to perform. That whenever we are together he is never in the moment. He gets too caught up in hoping this will be the time. Then I feel that he isn't enjoying himself, he is looking at this as a job. So then I disconnect mentally and then so does he. It is a vicious cycle.

I think if we/ he would just relax, have fun and let us enjoy the moment, things could just happen naturally. We have to start slowly before we can get back into the ML stage. Right now I want to work on other ways to show physical affection.

I will also be working on myself in the mean time. Either way next week when My Daughter's are away, It looks like I will be having a fun time.

Thanks so much, Shelby