I had my scan today, doctors found something but it nothing to be overly worried about. I have a very small cyst in my Epididymis tube, this is the network of tubes which are used for transporting the sperm out of the testes and occasionally they can get blocked. Treatment is routine and it can be cleared up with a short course of meds. While they were there the doctors scanned my Kidneys, spleen, liver, prostrate and bladder, all of which are in good working order.
I told W about the problem and she wasn't happy that I didn't involve her earlier, but I absolutely cracked her up when I told her that this tube was blocked because I wasn't passing sperm regularly enough, and from now on I would need to be "emptied" on a regular basis, purly for medical reasons and not for pleasure. If I listen now I can still hear her laughing.
Work on the house carries on, so not much detail to add there. I still feel the burden of debt but if the bank are happy to support me then it can't be all bad.
Next week I am on a business trip to Asia so I get a break from all of the dust, rubble and disruption at home, but I can still update.
So I am feeling relieved and a little less stressed.
Great news on the sac Lan....also liked the way you joked about it. Good luck in Asia...hopefully you will not be in and around Beijing (which should be a zoo).
I'm out in Asia on my business trip Bangkok to be precise, when I made this trip last year, W and I were in a bad spot, I can remember before I left I was begging her for some intermacy or any form of physical contact but she refused me. When I was away we argued on the phone and that cost me a lot of money cos I connected through the hotel switch board and paid on my Amex card both of whom charged me. Imagine that, it cost me $60 to call her a [censored] [censored].
Well what a difference a year makes, before I set off W insisted that we share a bed, W has been staying with her parents while we are renovating the house. We didn't ML but she said she just wanted me close before I left her. I spoke to her on the phone and she's telling me how much she misses me and can't wait for me to get back. That's such a nice feeling to be missed and feel wanted, long may it continue.
Lan, Just watched The Bucket List... by myself...everyone went to bed early. The movie moved me and so does your post. Yes it is such a nice feeling to be missed and feel wanted. I hope your wife wants you for a long time. I hope everyone reading this gets to feel what you are feeling tonight (or is it today in Bangkok) very soon. While I wrote that, I noticed that a couple of years ago the missing and feeling wanted part would have probably been taken for granted by most of us.....at least what we have gone through has changed us..... Travel safely.
Lan, You sound happy. This gives you a chance to reflect and W a chance to miss you. Who knows she maybe ready for some R talk after this. Wishing you and the W lots of happy feelings.
It's mid morning in Bangkok, I didn't think any of you guys would be up.
I make this trip once a year have done for the last 6 and this is the first time I've not been fretting about things back home, so yes I do sound happy.
To be honest, I nearly had a nervious breakdown in my hotel room last year , problems at home compounding difficult meetings I think I did crack, but what went on in that hotel room stayed in the hotel room until now.
Lan, I love reading your posts when you are like this. I am happy you are happy. I was reading my early threads and noticed how you and fb2 and a few others were trying to support a crazy Greek lost in the net. I appreciate all your help (fb2, yours too, you don't have a thread so I'll use Lan's) and advice. When some of us get a break, I feel better. Stay happy, Love K
