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Hey. I see your also piecing. I moved over to the piecing forum and got very few responses, so I pretty much keep on posting here in the MLC forum.

I also see your H moved back in with you in April - my h came back in May '08.

I am trying to make some new piecing buddies, because this is soooo hard.

Our H's have a very similar timeframe. I guess I am wondering how long you guys waited before making the move back in with each other or did it happen right away?

My H is still living in an apartment and I can still see many signs of MLC. We dont do C together, I used to go alone but didnt find it too helpful.

My H and I are doing great, and he is starting to come over more often and stay the night more. Sex life is absolutely great, however he still flirts with other random women and rents porn and girly magazines. And I espesially fear that he is sneeking out to the strip clubs and visiting his old Stripper EA girly from last year. I have no reason to think this other than fear.

So I can relate to the porn thing. My H even yelled at me in the heat of one of our Arguments that I never let him look at porn or watch naughty videos and that he is like the only man on earth that didnt ever get to have those pleasures when we were together. He even has gotten himself a P.O. box (right before the first bomb) so that his mail came to a different place than our house. He still uses this P.O. box and it bugs me.

I can relate to your fears so much and how hard it is to just trust their words. Do you think that C helps with this?

Well, I guess that I am also wondering if your H still shows many signs of still being in some sort of a crisis, as does mine. My H still lives in his apartment, goes out binge drinking regularly, has his p.o. box, gets an enormous amount of texts throughout the day, rarely works full days, is looking desperately to change careers, spends all of his money foolishly, eats every meal out, flirts with random women, hates my family and our old friends, and is constantly making new friends. But then when he is alone with me, we have a great time together and he acts so nice and kind and loving, and actually acts like a H. It is almost like he is torn between a M life and a Single life and cant make up his mind. Does your H show any similarities?
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