Well Silly - OK, I don't mean to bash on the guy, I don't even know him.
But ... in general, and this is just my OPINION (to which I am entitled) but men in GENERAL need to be more educated about women's bodies and what causes orgasm for women. And if a man (not necesarily Shelby's husband) does not take the time to educate himself enough to realize that women's bodies need a certain something different than a man's body needs in order to O, then that man in my OPINION, is a doofus and not worthy of MY time in bed.
IMHO!
As for whether or not such a man is a worthy person or not, of course he is. Sex isn't everything. Or maybe he is gay and that's why he doesn't care about how a woman's body works!
Silly, I suppose also, that without having the history of a woman, you really don't have much understanding about just HOW much of an a** a man can behave about such things and what a huge turn off it is. Just trust me - - men can be such dorks about this stuff - - I am not pointing fingers to anyone in this room, no one's husband, only actual men I have actually been with in my life.
ON the other hand...I also know that women can be clueless, that they really need to understand their OWN bodies better, that they need to understand a man's needs better....so please don't think that I reserve my honest opinions for the likes of men only! Remember - I've had women as partners. They can be the most irritating creatures on earth! I know this first hand.
Its all about education in my opinion....and people who like to think they know a lot about sexuality, where in fact, they only know what sex is like for themselves (ie: the men I was talking about above), are the same as people who make other ignorant assumptions about the world.
But once again...this does not make them worthless people! Just ignorant! And ignorant people can still learn and grow, they are not hopeless or helpless. They can be expected to become proficient about sex though, if they ever want to have truly GOOD sex.
So again - I am sorry to Shelby's husband, I have no clue if he is evolved or not.
